Feelings (emotional responses)
Shock
Numbness
Relief
Sadness
Yearning (empty arms)
Anxiety
Fear
Anger
Guilt or regret
Loneliness
Helplessness
Hopelessness
Abandonment
Loss of Control
Cognitions (thinking responses)
Disbelief
Ruminating (circling) thoughts
Confusion
Disorganized thinking
Unable to concentrate
Occupied with thoughts of the child
Sense of presence of the child
Visual and auditory hallucinations
Dreams of the child
Physical Sensations
Hollowness in stomach
Tightness in chest
Heart palpitations
Sensitive to noise
Sense of detachment/depersonalization (nothing seems real, including self)
Breathlessness
Muscle weakness and/or tension
Lack of energy
Dry mouth
Gastrointestinal disturbances
Behaviors (can be distressing, but are natural)
Sleep disturbances
Loss of appetite or increased appetite
Searching, yearning or calling out
Crying
Sighing
Seeing the deceased
Absent minded behavior
Restlessness with or resentment over usual activities
Visiting or avoiding places that hold memories of the child
Carrying or wearing objects that belonged to the child
Treasuring objects that belonged to the child
Avoidance of reminders of the child
Social withdrawal
Unwillingness to initiate and/or maintain routine activities
Taking on mannerisms or behaviors of the child
Important Numbers
Call: 1-800-273-8255
Call: #211
Text: HOME to 741741
Call: 1-800-944-4773
Text: HELP to 800-944-4773 (English)
or
971-203-7773 (Spanish)